Complete strangers who may otherwise never speak to each other can connect during stressful circumstances. It is Diagnostic Day at the clinic…the day that women with a history of breast cancer or women at risk are scheduled all in a lump, pardon the pun, for their mammogram. Sitting together in the small waiting room, we are a women-only club, a little vulnerable in our identical gown-with-opening-to-the-front apparel.
The “Girl Talk” flows, from career choices to parenthood to medical histories. We rotate in and out of the room; our name is called, we wait, we are called back for a second look, we wait some more, we are taken in for an ultrasound, and we wait. The typical types are all present. There is the woman who is upbeat and optimistic, there is the woman who provides running commentary and engages others in conversation, there is the pessimist filled with worry, and there are the quiet ones who flip through their magazines or knit in a purposeful way. We recognize that we all are in the same boat…and this isn’t so routine.
How are women who start out as complete strangers able to converse so easily, connect so quickly? It is a gift! In stressful times, such as waiting rooms, it is a blessing to naturally lean towards listening and encouragement. But there are also aspects of “Girl Talk” that aren’t positive. Take gossip for instance…
This week in our Daily Devotionals, we close our time in Proverbs with a focus on Girl Talk, both the positive and the negative, all areas we can and should work on. These Devotionals can be found under the category of Wise Words…Worthy Goals at www.gttdaily.wordpress.com.
A New “Our Story” has been published! Take a look at one woman’s journey with Depression, a topic that touches a lot of women’s lives. We often hesitate to talk about depression, but it is a conversation worth having because there is hope!